We talk a lot of trash. We also talk a lot of...untrash? Nice things? Whatever. Either way, good or bad, we wonder if people we talk about ever talk about us.
We think we're interesting enough, and hopefully present enough in the community. But is it possible we are more aware of our surroundings, or just bigger bitches, where we comment on other people's lives while they give no second opinion to ours.
For example, if you see pictures on facebook of someone you went to high school with, you may think, "Wow, he/she looks really good" or "I am so not jealous that she has two kids and lives in Cleveland." Hopefully, accompanying these thoughts are reciprocated, either similarly or contrarily, thoughts from the party whom you've discussed. Because surely they give enough of a shit about us to at least say our new shirt looked nice in those pics at the bar from last weekend or that the weight we recently shed and the bangs we grew are hot.
Are we right?
We'd love to know your thoughts, but in the meantime do us this favor: Please continue to analyze, observe, question, compliment, and bash those around you. Even if you don't know them that well or talk to them that often. We're willing to bet they have discussed you ad naus and would take comfort in knowing you are a gossiping little shit just like they are.